[Dildo Shwaggins]

I'm not sure you'd like being a staff member, and I'm not sure you have the best temperament to be one

I do want to acknowledge that you are willing to step up and help, as this is what your third app now? I appreciate you wanting to help. But I think it's best that you simply enjoy the game for now. If no staff are on and minge's are about, that's a good opportunity to prove yourself as a capable staff member via evidence collection and ban request making.

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Reading this discussion I do have a constructive criticism that I think would really go a long way. The one big thing I think you lack in terms of truly being able to be trusted by more people, whether they’re friends or adversaries in the community of yours, is patience. I know a month is the minimum amount of time between applications. Instead of applying every month, take a bit longer to really take the valid criticisms to heart and give some time to apply them while also continuing to solidify the positive aspects people point out. And then there’s the patience in terms of patience with other people and not acting on impulsive reaction, particularly those with disagreements and things that could offend. You’ll get a lot more of it as staff than you would a player. This is not encouragement to let poor behavior happen, but you have to know to pick your battles as well. The Minime thread (as a concept, not the events per se) comes across as a poor choice of battle. If someone says something that offends you as staff and someone else is wreaking havoc on a lot more people simultaneously to more people at once, you may need to put aside what is hurtful to you for the better of the whole. And assess the severity of things to really consider whether a big to do about something is worth the battle. The thread there comes across as an impulsive reaction to something that hurt you to be told rather than something that was approached with a calm and level demeanor. Impulse has its place in human nature and psyche, but control of your own impulse is needed when trying to do what is basically mitigate other people’s impulse.