[TDawg4]

Unfortunately, this is too logical for the people that need to hear it. Great post though.

I think most people would agree to at least some of this. The issue is when two people have a different view on a person behavior because of their experiences with them. Both feel really strongly and both are definitionally biased because of their experiences. It is really hard to tell what is true and what the person really thinks. Psychomike's app is a good example. A lot of people probably felt there must have been some kind of good explanation for the comment because of how well they have seem him interact with people on the server.
The only thing you can do is either write the person off and move on or you can run the risk of and wait and see (or mayyybe some combo). Whichever side of the scale they fall on the side that chose right will feel vindicated and the other side will feel betrayed.