[angel]

True that is true. I did not ask a "general feelings" question to all the admins. What I asked tiefling was unique compared to the others. And from what you originally posted It 100% is a valid concern. What I intended to convey was that the information conveyed to me from admins was minimal and the best I could do was get general feelings. 
I was told it is Wildly Inappropriate to ask, but that did not match up with the other bans as I mentioned to tea. This is why I asked for more context. I just didn't want to be party to something like lots of laced's friends were. I talked with them and they felt terrible about that situation and that really was making me think. 

My first question was "do you think its wrong" when asked for clarification I clarified where my feelings were at the time which were driving me to ask that question.

I got told it was wrong so I asked a second different question or which was essentially "what I should do instead" 

My second question was not relitigating the same point relating to logs. It was asking a different question about the nature of the ban I did not ask for specifics after being told it was "wildly inappropriate" to ask for them. In the second part I was not demanding anything or even asking a question, I was sharing with tiefling where my thoughts were add and if she could do anything to point them in the right direction as far as how I should act. I actually did get more of an answer when I asked for direction which was Tiefling wishing that the ban was more sever/wide reaching. This did influence me and how I have moved forward since then. 

The goal was to not nibble around the edges looking for a way in. It was direction for how I should behave especially in the context of laced's recent ban. 

Also I'll add from what you have said I think the things you are saying fit. You don't know me well, and you feeling like your putting yourself out there and being vulnerable especially now in a public space is obviously miserable. 


Looking back, I could have been clearer my stance but I was writing as a conversation not a forum post. I wasn't asking to be convinced, but asking for a yes or no from tiefling on the logs issue. (I was basically outsourcing the question to someone who knew more and I knew would take a strong stance based on that info). 

I am sorry my Admin app is dragging you back through this as you have tried to step back from the community as a whole.

Thank you for clarifying this for me and thank you for acknowledging and addressing my concern, I truly appreciate it.

As I said, I understood why you had reacted in the way you did, it was a tough situation for everyone and I didn't share my concern here by any means to create any or dredge up old 'drama'. I simply just wanted to see how you, yourself would respond to it when it was brought up as it's something that had made me uncomfortable after being told about.

While I am still distancing myself, I do still care about the community and those inside of it and I guess I just wanted my own personal reassurance that it'd still be in good hands and that situations like the one being talked about here would be properly handled if you were to be promoted, and I do trust that it will be. 

I've never had any big problems with you outside of this incident, and have had otherwise only good experiences while interacting with and being around you. I think you're a great staff member, and while I'm still not putting in a vote due to my activity, I do think that if you were promoted, you'd make an excellent Admin and I wish you the best of luck going forward.