[Super Milk Chan]

Show some god dam respect as if you mother fuckers don't have problems that could be picked apart by people who know you better, with the root of the problem comming for shit far less life-threatening if anything at all. Grow up, what a ignorant thing to say to someone trying to be nice.

I didn't really care to comment further than my initial response before, but this is just a tad absurd. Respect is not owed to someone who has been consistently disrespectful and then some. While like I said I can sympathize with struggling through hardships, it's not an excuse for shitty behavior and is irrelevant to whether someone should be allowed back in the community after said shitty behavior. I hope he gets/continues to get help for those issues, but access to a community that he chose to burn bridges from is not required for that, nor is he entitled to it.

It was only a month ago that he didn't even feel the need for any sort of apology or amendment, and even now the apology is hollow and self serving. The "poor choice of word usage" also wasn't some one-off occurrence, it's regularly his go-to response when he wants to insult someone and lacks the self control to think better of it. The alcohol didn't put the word in his vocabulary, nor did it choose me as the target of his harassment on his behalf. The slurs and harassment also weren't the only issue, his constant wealth flaunting (which did not come from just military service as you claim, but I digress) followed by his inevitable downplaying and arguing about his wealth made the discord an incredibly frustrating environment as someone who struggles financially, yet he never felt the need to "show some god dam respect" or consider the circumstances of others' lives as you're insisting now.

All of this is to say that this is not just "someone trying to be nice", and the issues are much deeper than just someone having struggles and being misunderstood.

I can assure you that mistakes will not happen in the future.

While I'm here, these were not "mistakes", and describing them as such is just further downplaying your fault. You didn't accidentally stumble into slurs and harassment, this isn't an oopsie daisy moment. A real apology requires real accountability, which I do not feel is being conveyed.

I think personally I have worked on myself to the point where I won't do anything dumb due to my limitations on alcohol consumption. I don't drink in excessive amounts anymore to the point where I had no filter. I am still attending counseling for various things to better myself as well.

It's good that you're working to improve things, but it takes more than a month of work for real change to happen. You have always insisted your drinking wasn't excessive, so that's not very reassuring. And part of the problem is that you need to go to such great lengths to "filter" yourself from slurring and harassment to begin with.

Personally think either a set period should be in place until I'm unbanned and/or unbanned with a point threshold where if anything were to happen (which nothing will), I would immediately be banned again.

Not my call to make and this is all just my personal opinion, but this comes across as incredibly entitled.

literally everyone is owed respect. Untill it gets taking away.