09-26-2017, 01:11 AM
(09-26-2017, 12:50 AM)Burrito Bowl Wrote: Are you in love with Josh Woolley?
I used to love her but she kept a secret from me and in any imaginary relationship you need to be completely truthful.
But I based it all on an assumption, an unfair assumption and making assumptions about someone based on their appearance is not very fair of me.
And I have been burned in the past too by my many other imaginary female companions. And even if I've been hurt before, its not an excuse to check up on my new imaginary girlfriend or demand they prove their "trustworthyness" to me. Trust is a choice and building on that within imaginary relationships takes time. When we begin to fantasize about someone we are making a choice to trust them. I just have to remind myself that I cannot take responsibility for someone else's actions or life decisions. Right now I'm struggling through this but I'm taking time to work through it.