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this is something that im going to agree with, as i have no proof i believe he has those set as binds and is using them whilst noone is around or he genuinely thinks its a good idea.
im sure you have told him about how its abuse but he just isnt understanding that it is.

Yep the first time he did it I told him not to again. Its been repeating which is where the problem is.

yeah its the big bad, i dont want him to lose donor heis a good friend but if hes going to repeat this well im not going to defend a guilty man