11-03-2020, 11:14 PM
(This post was last modified: 11-03-2020, 11:20 PM by Kina. Edited 1 time in total.)
"Myself and other members have noticed that I am often excluded from the group and given the cold shoulder when I do try to include myself with the other staff members. "
While I could be completely misunderstanding what this means but I believe something similar happened to an old staff member, Kasumi. I also won't lie I've also felt in this boat, I almost resigned early last year, although I don't remember any details of it, I just remember mostly feeling left out and FFxiv really helping me back then. That game gave me time to think that I could have been just overreacting, and going back to "well maybe if I used a mic I'd feel like I fit in more, and maybe if I'd start interacting with people outside the server more might help as well". So I just shrugged it off. My actual resignation was basically a response to that way of thinking. I feared that when I did come back that I would be out of place as not only the server would change but the staff team itself would as well. it was like that first time I came back (the one before I resigned) so why wouldn't it be like that the second time around. Of course, at the time I also didn't consider coming back so soon. While it wasn't that much of a factor as to why I truly resigned, those being lack of interest in the game and work being hell for 10-11 hours for 5 days, plus another 8 on a Saturday. (disclaimer the Saturday part started soon after I resigned), I did take it into consideration.
Which brings me to this. I believe that these kinds of things (sadly) won't change, the staff team is constantly changing, as stated before people come and go, so it's hard (IMO) to keep this in check all the time. I'm sure there are others that are like this not only for PH but TTT, DR, murder, or even other servers as well. We really can't compromise to make everyone happy, to have everyone feel like they're included.
Sorry if this was out of place, but it was something I thought I would add.
also sorry if that seemed all over the place was working on for like nearly two hours and really tired
While I could be completely misunderstanding what this means but I believe something similar happened to an old staff member, Kasumi. I also won't lie I've also felt in this boat, I almost resigned early last year, although I don't remember any details of it, I just remember mostly feeling left out and FFxiv really helping me back then. That game gave me time to think that I could have been just overreacting, and going back to "well maybe if I used a mic I'd feel like I fit in more, and maybe if I'd start interacting with people outside the server more might help as well". So I just shrugged it off. My actual resignation was basically a response to that way of thinking. I feared that when I did come back that I would be out of place as not only the server would change but the staff team itself would as well. it was like that first time I came back (the one before I resigned) so why wouldn't it be like that the second time around. Of course, at the time I also didn't consider coming back so soon. While it wasn't that much of a factor as to why I truly resigned, those being lack of interest in the game and work being hell for 10-11 hours for 5 days, plus another 8 on a Saturday. (disclaimer the Saturday part started soon after I resigned), I did take it into consideration.
Which brings me to this. I believe that these kinds of things (sadly) won't change, the staff team is constantly changing, as stated before people come and go, so it's hard (IMO) to keep this in check all the time. I'm sure there are others that are like this not only for PH but TTT, DR, murder, or even other servers as well. We really can't compromise to make everyone happy, to have everyone feel like they're included.
Sorry if this was out of place, but it was something I thought I would add.
also sorry if that seemed all over the place was working on for like nearly two hours and really tired
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