11-04-2020, 05:03 AM
(This post was last modified: 11-04-2020, 05:10 AM by Starling. Edited 4 times in total.)
Applications:
1. Yes I understand that but it appears that the negative is outweighing the positive when the negative claims lack the side of the individual in question.
2. It does not appear they hold little to no weight from those viewing from the outside in, especially when applications are being denied based solely upon the negative responses from individuals who are rarely active at the same time as the applicant.
3. We all act different outside of staffing within the server, everyone knows this. basing one's behavior outside of the server can result in false readings. The problem is now is that people who don't even interact with the applicant are basing their opinions off of 1-3 hours of an outside perspective of the individual while on server.
4. It is not hard to notice this when you compare an individual's time in the gametracker with the applicant at hand along with the responses of others. What else can you call it when an individual who has not been online in weeks -1 an individual for an incident that happened strictly within the server when they themselves were not there for?
5. Yes, I am aware that individuals who are friends or not are suppose to remain unbias but the fact of the matter is that they are not remaining unbias with their comments. They are letting their personal feelings interfere with the application and preventing those with potential from becoming staff.
Reputations:
This should not be a "thing". Tearing an individual's character apart based on assumptions? How does that at all seem normal? There is a major difference between there being a problem with communication and people blatantly not caring enough to get the other side of the story and solely spreading their side of the story.
Now honestly I've been keeping my distance from fully interacting with people outside of staffing within the server with the admin chat. Can you blame me after I've heard that certain individuals are judging me based on one interaction? I have only been hanging within my own discord for the past three months because of this. Do I love being in Voicecall with people while I play? Yes, but honestly I do not need the stress of worrying about people judging my every move and word in order to find a new thing to nitpick at. Within the past three months, I've only interacted with the same three staff members outside of server, everything else has solely been within the server via admin chat. I rarely interact with individuals within the discord community or through the forums since I am more of an introvert when it comes to social interaction. At most you will find me sharing pictures of my cats or sending an emoji of a dinosaur drinking apple juice. So yes, I honestly do believe people are basing their assumptions solely from the server because that is the only place I have been interacting with said individuals.
Incident:
I will explain more to this incident since it is apparent from these paragraphs alone that you are missing pieces from this jigsaw puzzle.
Now this has always pertained to the Dinkleberg community as all the members included are apart of it and has had a negative impact on my time here ever since. I do not understand where you are coming from with "From stories and instances that I got from you and the other staff member, this had been going on before you even joined this community." as I had joined this community months before said individual even joined the server. This was never allowed to fester to the point as to which it did. I made my attempts to confront said individual about their behavior on two separate occasions, but alas both attempts were futile. The first time pertaining to them creeping out multiple members of my discord to the point they began to flat out avoid my discord. The second time pertaining to the individual avoiding me and pulling mutual friends away by forcing them to choose sides by making separate calls without me. I can provide screenshots for both of these incidents if you desire them.
In the screenshots I had provided you through discord, you can see they went to my friend on the 08/06/2020. I did not know of this event occurring until 9/27/2020, I can send you a screenshot of the day I received the screenshots as further proof if need be. Hell, you can even go to the other communities within Dink's and learn that they have been telling people to flat out avoid me. So please explain to me how exactly I hated this individual when the entire time I was being nice and chilling with them in games outside of Dinks that they were only being Two-faced the entire time?
If I did hate this individual from the get-go as you claim, they would not of lasted nearly a year within my own discord as they so did. I give everyone within my discord three strikes to change their behavior before I kick them for being a problematic individual. If you remember Happy, the kid, even he got his three strikes before ultimately being banned from my discord. I went to this individual twice pertaining to their behavior and both times I was met with the individual playing dumb and flat out lying when I had DMs to backup the claims I had received. So yes, they were kicked. Was I pissed when I did it? Of course, anyone would be when you find out someone you considered a friend was secretly slandering your name throughout the community. I am certain the people who came to me about these claims the individual made would be willing to discuss these accusations with you if you are willing to hear them out.
Onto the application incident, you state that "neither one of you showing evidence of the event that took place publicly" when the other individual stated that they would share the video with what happened in their second comment. Why would I post a video of the same exact incident when the other party stated they were already in process of sending it to you? Maybe it is your wording, but I had your approval to post your comment to the point where I sent you the response word from word to glance over before I posted it onto the applicant.
Now onto the meeting section, I did not speak because honestly I felt as though I would be cornered and bullied into going along with the majority of the group. That was the real reason why I did not want to attend. I did not want to be cornered about what happened on Kiwi's trusted application via voice call and I did not feel safe sharing any more of my opinions when the ones I had already shared sparked a controversy. If you do you want the evidence pertaining to everything I have told you about said individual, I will dig through each and every chat I have and send you screenshots of what each individual has came to me about. But as I have said previously, Individuals who will not be named are willing to share with you the accusations the individuals have made about me.
1. Yes I understand that but it appears that the negative is outweighing the positive when the negative claims lack the side of the individual in question.
2. It does not appear they hold little to no weight from those viewing from the outside in, especially when applications are being denied based solely upon the negative responses from individuals who are rarely active at the same time as the applicant.
3. We all act different outside of staffing within the server, everyone knows this. basing one's behavior outside of the server can result in false readings. The problem is now is that people who don't even interact with the applicant are basing their opinions off of 1-3 hours of an outside perspective of the individual while on server.
4. It is not hard to notice this when you compare an individual's time in the gametracker with the applicant at hand along with the responses of others. What else can you call it when an individual who has not been online in weeks -1 an individual for an incident that happened strictly within the server when they themselves were not there for?
5. Yes, I am aware that individuals who are friends or not are suppose to remain unbias but the fact of the matter is that they are not remaining unbias with their comments. They are letting their personal feelings interfere with the application and preventing those with potential from becoming staff.
Reputations:
This should not be a "thing". Tearing an individual's character apart based on assumptions? How does that at all seem normal? There is a major difference between there being a problem with communication and people blatantly not caring enough to get the other side of the story and solely spreading their side of the story.
Now honestly I've been keeping my distance from fully interacting with people outside of staffing within the server with the admin chat. Can you blame me after I've heard that certain individuals are judging me based on one interaction? I have only been hanging within my own discord for the past three months because of this. Do I love being in Voicecall with people while I play? Yes, but honestly I do not need the stress of worrying about people judging my every move and word in order to find a new thing to nitpick at. Within the past three months, I've only interacted with the same three staff members outside of server, everything else has solely been within the server via admin chat. I rarely interact with individuals within the discord community or through the forums since I am more of an introvert when it comes to social interaction. At most you will find me sharing pictures of my cats or sending an emoji of a dinosaur drinking apple juice. So yes, I honestly do believe people are basing their assumptions solely from the server because that is the only place I have been interacting with said individuals.
Incident:
I will explain more to this incident since it is apparent from these paragraphs alone that you are missing pieces from this jigsaw puzzle.
Now this has always pertained to the Dinkleberg community as all the members included are apart of it and has had a negative impact on my time here ever since. I do not understand where you are coming from with "From stories and instances that I got from you and the other staff member, this had been going on before you even joined this community." as I had joined this community months before said individual even joined the server. This was never allowed to fester to the point as to which it did. I made my attempts to confront said individual about their behavior on two separate occasions, but alas both attempts were futile. The first time pertaining to them creeping out multiple members of my discord to the point they began to flat out avoid my discord. The second time pertaining to the individual avoiding me and pulling mutual friends away by forcing them to choose sides by making separate calls without me. I can provide screenshots for both of these incidents if you desire them.
In the screenshots I had provided you through discord, you can see they went to my friend on the 08/06/2020. I did not know of this event occurring until 9/27/2020, I can send you a screenshot of the day I received the screenshots as further proof if need be. Hell, you can even go to the other communities within Dink's and learn that they have been telling people to flat out avoid me. So please explain to me how exactly I hated this individual when the entire time I was being nice and chilling with them in games outside of Dinks that they were only being Two-faced the entire time?
If I did hate this individual from the get-go as you claim, they would not of lasted nearly a year within my own discord as they so did. I give everyone within my discord three strikes to change their behavior before I kick them for being a problematic individual. If you remember Happy, the kid, even he got his three strikes before ultimately being banned from my discord. I went to this individual twice pertaining to their behavior and both times I was met with the individual playing dumb and flat out lying when I had DMs to backup the claims I had received. So yes, they were kicked. Was I pissed when I did it? Of course, anyone would be when you find out someone you considered a friend was secretly slandering your name throughout the community. I am certain the people who came to me about these claims the individual made would be willing to discuss these accusations with you if you are willing to hear them out.
Onto the application incident, you state that "neither one of you showing evidence of the event that took place publicly" when the other individual stated that they would share the video with what happened in their second comment. Why would I post a video of the same exact incident when the other party stated they were already in process of sending it to you? Maybe it is your wording, but I had your approval to post your comment to the point where I sent you the response word from word to glance over before I posted it onto the applicant.
Now onto the meeting section, I did not speak because honestly I felt as though I would be cornered and bullied into going along with the majority of the group. That was the real reason why I did not want to attend. I did not want to be cornered about what happened on Kiwi's trusted application via voice call and I did not feel safe sharing any more of my opinions when the ones I had already shared sparked a controversy. If you do you want the evidence pertaining to everything I have told you about said individual, I will dig through each and every chat I have and send you screenshots of what each individual has came to me about. But as I have said previously, Individuals who will not be named are willing to share with you the accusations the individuals have made about me.
